"TAFFY" LISA LOEB & NINE STORIES (1995)

Each day in November, I’m revisiting a song from the 90’s — a decade that was a sorta coming of age for me. In that span, I experienced high school, college and my time as a young single guy in New York City. It was a decade of ups and downs, and the music never stopped playing during that span. It was always there with me. #30DaysOf90sSongs

The story of Lisa Loeb has always been an intriguing one to me. At Brown University, she played in a college band called Liz and Lisa and her guitarist was a classmate by the name of Duncan Sheik. A few years later, while living in New York City, she was playing in small clubs and got the attention of one of her neighbors. That neighbor happened to be working on a film, and gave the director a demo of hers to check out. The actor was Ethan Hawke. The director was Ben Stiller. The movie was a coming-of-age classic called Reality Bites. And, of course, the song was “Stay”, which became the pivotal hit on the movie’s soundtrack. A year later, she recorded Tails, which included the infectious “Taffy”.

Like many Lisa Loeb songs, “Taffy” pulled me in with its raw, intimate feel — a song that seemed like it came from a friend more so than a famous recording artist. Pulling it apart, “Taffy” has these wonderful, little elements, like the drum rolls that stumble over into pregnant pauses, the bass line that jumps octaves and Lisa’s falsetto sways in the chorus. But the very best thing about the song is how she took a common theme and clothed it in an unusual, yet playful metaphor.

“Sometimes you tell the truth like you're pulling taffy.”

"STAY" LISA LOEB & NINE STORIES (1994)

Exceptional soundtracks can make good movies great. They can also take on a life of their own, becoming a greater highlight than their respective films. In this series, I’m selecting some of my favorite soundtrack songs. While quite a few are well-known recordings, I’m also including a few that have flown under the radar over the years.

“Stay” might be the most recognized song of 1994. And that’s not just because of Lisa Loeb’s unique persona as a singer-songwriter. It’s also because actor Ethan Hawke knew he heard something special when he walked past Loeb’s door in their apartment building. If he hadn’t noticed the magic, the Reality Bites soundtrack would have a completely different feel.

Despite featuring several well-respected acts like U2, Dinosaur Jr., Lenny Kravitz and Squeeze, this soundtrack is nothing without “Stay”. It’s the lynchpin on the album, and the identity of the movie. It’s perhaps the first thing you think of when you think of the movie Reality Bites. “Stay” veered its way into our heads with tempo changes, vocal rants and the coy, yet unforgettable guitar riff.

“And I thought what I felt was simple. And I thought that I don't belong. And now that I am leaving, now I know that I did something wrong.”